Hello! I’m Carmel (she/her).
I have always loved working with people. This, combined with a love for social justice, led me to social work and, ultimately, psychotherapy. Over the past decade, I have worked in various mental health and social work positions in settings such as middle schools, primary care, inpatient psychiatric care, community mental health, and Indigenous organizations. In addition to my professional experience, education, and training, it is my own commitment to healing that allows me to be with others in their pursuit of transformation, healing, and growth.
Positionality:
I am a Black identifying, bi-racial woman of Afro-Caribbean and European heritage. I am also neurodivergent (ADHD), non-disabled, straight-sized, cisgender, and bisexual. I strive to be mindful of the positions of power and privilege that I occupy and I acknowledge that my own lived experiences and social locations inform my understanding and approach as a therapist.
Therapeutic Approach
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“Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion.” - bell hooks
In recognizing our innate need for relational healing, I focus on cultivating a genuine, attuned relationship with my clients, so they feel accompanied and witnessed throughout their healing process. I say what I notice. I'll tell you when something moves me, or check whether I've understood, or just let you know I'm here with you. While I take your healing seriously, I try to keep things light, and I love to celebrate the shifts big and small when they show up.
I know that connection itself can be daunting, especially for people carrying attachment wounds. Being cared about by a therapist can feel more exposing than talking about what happened. So we go slowly, and at a pace that feels natural, and what tends to grow from this is the capacity for other more meaningful relationships in your life.
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“Embodiment reveals our bodies as central to change and transformation. It awakens our felt sense of choice, and awakens us to our connection to ourselves, each other, and the world around us” - Prentis Hemphill, Founder of The Embodiment Institute
Our bodies hold the tools, wisdom, and resources we need to heal and thrive. In session, somatic work often means slowing way down, noticing what's happening at the level of sensation, energy, or impulse, and then bringing attention, breath, movement, or care to whatever turns up there.
For a lot of people, turning toward the body feels strange at first, or scary, so we go gradually, building resources along the way, and let comfort in the body grow at its pace.
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“Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.” ― Audre Lorde
Talking about our problems isn't usually enough to heal. So much of what brings people to therapy, whether that's addiction, dissociation, depression, or anxiety, works as a way of managing emotions that feel too painful to feel. So in our sessions, we build enough safety to feel them, rather than moving past it.
Our emotions are wise messengers that carry important information about our needs. When we can allow feelings to move through us, what often waits on the other side is relief, joy, or clarity, and a sense of aliveness.
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“Our parts can sometimes be disruptive or harmful, but once they're unburdened, they return to their essential goodness. When we learn to love all our parts, we can learn to love all people — and that will contribute to healing the world…” Richard Schwartz, Founder of Internal Family Systems
Drawing from ego-state therapy, often termed as "parts work" or “inner child work", I recognize the diverse 'parts' or 'states' within all of us. Each part has its origin, some emerging from past wounds, especially those formed in early life. Some parts might be protective or wounded, and some might even be hidden from your conscious awareness. We'll invite curiosity about these parts, understanding them and meeting their needs, so they can work harmoniously.
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"Without inner change there can be no outer change. Without collective change, no change matters.” - Angel Kyodo Williams
I'm dedicated to addressing the deep-rooted impacts of oppression, colonialism, and structural violence on individual and collective well-being. I walk alongside my clients as a companion in healing, while also advocating for transformative justice to address systemic oppressions that contribute to personal suffering.
I also recognize the power dynamics embedded in therapeutic relationships and actively work to dismantle them. I remain open to critique, ready to repair harm and adapt my approach. I hold my own intentions and actions with a healthy skepticism, always reflecting on and assessing my alignment with ethical and just practices.
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“What if we honestly assessed what we have come to believe about ourselves and each other, and how those beliefs shape our lives? And what if we did it with generosity and forgiveness? What if we did it with mercy?” - Ross Gay
I'm interested in the whole web of experience that shapes a person: family history, intergenerational wounds and ancestral wisdom, and the systems and structures that shape how any of us relate to ourselves and the world. Approached with honesty and curiosity, that context refuses an individualistic and pathologizing account of a life, so that we understand struggle not as personal failing, but rather as a reasonable response to their environment and history.
Therapeutic Modalities
While I take an integrative approach to therapy, the foundation of my work is Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP). AEDP is an attachment-based, emotion-focused model that helps us heal through connection, safety, and harnesses our innate drive towards healing and thriving. Alongside AEDP, I draw from:
I invest in regular clinical consultation, personal therapy, and professional development because I believe the quality of my presence matters as much as the modalities I use. You can learn more about my qualifications and advanced trainings below.
Education, training & affiliations
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Master of Social Work, University of Northern British Columbia, 2022
Bachelor of Social Work, University of Victoria, 2015
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Registered Social Worker (#12898), British Columbia College of Social Workers
Registered Social Worker (#851622), Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers
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Core Trauma & Attachment Specializations
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) Immersion | AEDP Institute
AEDP Essential Skills | AEDP Institute
AEDP 2025 Conference: In It Together | AEDP Institute
Treating Eating Disorders with AEDP | AEDP Institute
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Basic Therapy Training | Sue Genest
EMDR Parent, Child & Attachment Specialist Intensive Certificate | Ana Gomez, Agate Institute
Practical Steps for Working with EMDR, Ego States, and Dissociative parts | Healing Complex Trauma LTD.
Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy: How to Prepare Dissociative, Attachment-Wounded Clients for EMDR | DNMS Institute (in progress)
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy for Trauma Themes (Level 1) | Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Ego-State Interventions | Robin Shapiro
Dissociation-Focused Trauma Treatment | PESI
Couples & Relational Therapy
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) Externship | ICEEFT
Transformative Couples Therapy Essential Skills | TCT Institute
Embodied Sexuality Year 1 | Soma Institute (in progress)
Embodied Sexuality Immersion Workshop | Soma Institute
Anxiety & OCD
Mastering EMDR for OCD: Treating the Roots of Obsessions and Compulsions | EMDR for OCD
Fundamentals of Exposure-Based Therapy for OCD and Anxiety Disorders | NOCD Academy
Y Mind Medicine Facilitator Training (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy for Youth) | YMCA
Indigenous Specific
San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training
Qwí:qwelstóm First Responders Sexual Violence Disclosure Training | Sto:lo Service Agency
Indigenous Family Support Work Certificate | Indigenous Perspectives Society
Foundational Training
Seeking Safety: Trauma and/or Substance Abuse | Treatment Innovations
Motivational Interviewing Foundations | Northern Health Authority
ASIST Suicide Prevention | LivingWorks
FASD Key Worker Certificate | Ministry of Children & Family Development
Let’s get to know each other.
If my therapeutic approach resonates with you, I invite you to book a free 15-minute consult call. This is an opportunity for us to connect, for you to share what brings you to therapy, ask questions, and determine if we are the right fit to work together.