Hello! I’m Carmel (she/her).
I have always loved working with people. This, combined with a love for social justice, led me to social work and, ultimately, psychotherapy. Over the past decade, I have worked in various mental health and social work positions in settings such as middle schools, primary care, inpatient psychiatric care, community mental health, and Indigenous organizations. In addition to my professional experience, education, and training, it is my own commitment to healing that allows me to be with others in their pursuit of transformation, healing, and growth.
Positionality:
I am a Black identifying, bi-racial woman of Afro-Caribbean and European heritage. I am also neurodivergent (ADHD), non-disabled, straight-sized, cisgender, and bisexual. I strive to be mindful of the positions of power and privilege that I occupy and I acknowledge that my own lived experiences and social locations inform my understanding and approach as a therapist.
Therapeutic Approach
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“Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion.” - bell hooks
In recognizing our innate need for relational healing, I focus on cultivating a genuine, attuned relationship with my clients, so they feel accompanied and witnessed throughout their healing process. I say when something moves me, or check whether I've understood, or just let you know I'm here with you. While I take healing seriously, I also love to laugh and kiki with clients when the moment calls for it.
I know that being cared for by a therapist can feel daunting, especially for people carrying attachment wounds. We cannot rush or force trust and connection, so we go at a pace that feels natural. What tends to grow from this is the capacity for more closeness in other relationships in your life.
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“Embodiment reveals our bodies as central to change and transformation. It awakens our felt sense of choice, and awakens us to our connection to ourselves, each other, and the world around us” - Prentis Hemphill, Founder of The Embodiment Institute
Our bodies hold the tools, wisdom, and resources we need to heal and thrive. In session, somatic work often means building your capacity to be in the body, slowing way down, noticing what's happening at the level of sensation, energy, or impulse, and then bringing attention, breath, movement, or care to whatever turns up there.
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“Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.” ― Audre Lorde
Talking about our problems isn't usually enough to heal. So much of what brings people to therapy, whether that's addiction, dissociation, depression, or anxiety, works as a way of managing emotions that feel too painful or overwhelming.
Our emotions are wise messengers that carry important information about our needs. So when we build enough safety to allow feelings to move through us, what often waits on the other side is relief, joy, or clarity, and a sense of aliveness.
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“Our parts can sometimes be disruptive or harmful, but once they're unburdened, they return to their essential goodness. When we learn to love all our parts, we can learn to love all people — and that will contribute to healing the world…” Richard Schwartz, Founder of Internal Family Systems
Drawing from ego-state therapy, often termed as "parts work" or “inner child work", I recognize that all of us carry 'parts' or 'states'. Each part has its origin, some emerging from past wounds, especially those formed in early life. Some parts might be protective or wounded, and some might even be hidden from conscious awareness. We'll invite curiosity about these parts, understanding them and meeting their needs, so they can work harmoniously.
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"Without inner change there can be no outer change. Without collective change, no change matters.” - Angel Kyodo Williams
I'm dedicated to addressing the deep-rooted impacts of oppression, colonialism, and structural violence on individual and collective well-being. I walk alongside my clients as a companion in healing, while also advocating for transformative justice to address systemic oppressions that contribute to personal suffering.
I also recognize the power dynamics embedded in therapeutic relationships and actively work to dismantle them. I remain open to critique, ready to repair harm and adapt my approach. I hold my own intentions and actions with a healthy skepticism, always reflecting on and assessing my alignment with ethical and just practices.
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“What if we honestly assessed what we have come to believe about ourselves and each other, and how those beliefs shape our lives? And what if we did it with generosity and forgiveness? What if we did it with mercy?” - Ross Gay
I'm interested in the whole web of experience that shapes a person: family history, intergenerational wounds and ancestral wisdom, and the systems and structures that shape how any of us relate to ourselves and the world. Approached with honesty and curiosity, that context refuses an individualistic and pathologizing account of a life, so that we understand struggle not as personal failing, but rather as a reasonable response to their environment and history.
Therapeutic Modalities
I take an integrative approach to therapy, informed by a range of therapeutic modalities, justice frameworks, spiritual traditions, and knowledge systems. Many of these approaches speak a similar language, so I don't think of them as a set of interventions to use on someone. I especially value healing and knowledge traditions outside dominant colonial frameworks, and I am learning from Indigenous teachings on healing and wellbeing with humility, and with respect for the many distinct nations and communities they come from.
Therapy with each person is a creative, responsive, and collaborative relationship. Within it, I draw on the underlying truths and connecting threads of these traditions and modalities in service of your healing. I also invest regularly in my own personal and professional growth, because I believe the quality of my presence matters as much as the approach I use.
You can also learn more about the specific therapy modalities I use below:
Education, training & affiliations
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Master of Social Work, University of Northern British Columbia, 2022
Bachelor of Social Work, University of Victoria, 2015
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Registered Social Worker (#12898), British Columbia College of Social Workers
Registered Social Worker (#851622), Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers
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Core Trauma & Attachment Specializations
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) Immersion | AEDP Institute
AEDP Essential Skills | AEDP Institute
AEDP 2025 Conference: In It Together | AEDP Institute
Treating Eating Disorders with AEDP | AEDP Institute
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Basic Therapy Training | Sue Genest
EMDR Parent, Child & Attachment Specialist Intensive Certificate | Ana Gomez, Agate Institute
Practical Steps for Working with EMDR, Ego States, and Dissociative parts | Healing Complex Trauma LTD.
Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy: How to Prepare Dissociative, Attachment-Wounded Clients for EMDR | DNMS Institute (in progress)
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy for Trauma Themes (Level 1) | Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Ego-State Interventions | Robin Shapiro
Dissociation-Focused Trauma Treatment | PESI
Embodied Sexuality - 1st Year Training| SOMA Intimacy Institute
Embodied Sexuality Immersion Workshop | SOMA Intimacy Institute
Couples & Relational Therapy
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) Externship | ICEEFT
Transformative Couples Therapy Essential Skills | TCT Institute
Anxiety & OCD
Mastering EMDR for OCD: Treating the Roots of Obsessions and Compulsions | EMDR for OCD
Fundamentals of Exposure-Based Therapy for OCD and Anxiety Disorders | NOCD Academy
Indigenous Specific
San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training
Qwí:qwelstóm First Responders Sexual Violence Disclosure Training | Sto:lo Service Agency
Y Mind Medicine Facilitator Training (Indigenous Informed Acceptance & Commitment Therapy for Youth) | YMCA
Indigenous Family Support Work Certificate | Indigenous Perspectives Society
Foundational Training
Seeking Safety: Trauma and/or Substance Abuse | Treatment Innovations
Motivational Interviewing Foundations | Northern Health Authority
ASIST Suicide Prevention | LivingWorks
FASD Key Worker Certificate | Ministry of Children & Family Development
Let’s get to know each other.
If my therapeutic approach resonates with you, I invite you to book a free 15-minute consult call. This is an opportunity for us to connect, for you to share what brings you to therapy, ask questions, and determine if we are the right fit to work together.